Loving Joy TPE Dildos

Instructions for Use

1. Preparation and Warming

TPE is a fantastic material because it closely mimics the softness and texture of real skin, and it responds incredibly well to temperature.

• Cleaning: Before your first use, wash the dildo thoroughly with warm water and an unperfumed anti-bacterial soap, or a specialised sex toy cleaner.

• Warming (Optional): To enhance the lifelike feel, you can soak the toy in a bowl of warm (not boiling) water for 5 to 10 minutes before use. Make sure the water is comfortably warm to the touch to avoid burning yourself.

2. Positioning and Use (By Product)

Suction Cup Dildos (With and Without Balls)

• Surface Mounting: For hands-free play, press the suction cup base firmly against a smooth, flat, non-porous surface (such as bathroom tiles, a mirror, or glass). Slightly dampening the base with water can help create a stronger air seal. To remove the toy, slide a fingernail under the edge of the base to break the seal; do not yank it by the shaft.

• Harness Play: Both styles can be used with a standard O-ring strap-on harness. Push the head of the toy through the back of the O-ring. The flat base (and the balls, if your model has them) will sit flush against the inside of the harness panel, keeping the toy stable and preventing it from slipping out during pegging or coupled play.

Double Dildos

• Coupled or Solo Play: Double dildos are elongated and flexible, designed for mutual stimulation (worn by one partner to penetrate another) or for dual penetration.

• Pacing and Communication: Because the ends are often controlled by body movement rather than hands, constant communication with your partner is essential. Ensure the pacing, angle, and depth are comfortable for both people involved.

3. Safe Usage Guidelines

• Lubrication (Crucial): TPE is a highly porous material. You must only use a generous amount of water-based lubricant (lube). Using silicone-based lubricants, Vaseline, massage oils, or lotions will permanently break down, melt, and ruin the TPE.

• Hygiene and Condoms: Because TPE is porous, it can harbour microscopic bacteria over time even with washing. If you are sharing the double dildo with a partner, or using any of these toys for varying types of play (switching orifices), it is strongly recommended to use condoms on the toy to prevent cross-contamination and ensure optimal hygiene.

4. Cleaning, Maintenance, and Storage

TPE requires a specific aftercare routine to keep it in perfect condition and stop it from degrading.

• Post-Use Cleaning: Immediately after use, wash the dildo thoroughly with warm, soapy water.

• Drying: Shake off excess water and allow the toy to air dry completely. Do not use direct heat sources like a hairdryer or radiator, as this can melt the material.

• Renewing the Material: Once the TPE is 100% dry, you will likely notice it feels sticky or tacky. This is completely normal for this material. Dust the entire toy lightly with a specialised toy renewing powder or unscented cornflour to absorb the tackiness and restore its smooth, velvety texture.

• Storage: Store the dildo in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight. To prevent chemical reactions and melting, never store TPE toys touching other sex toys (especially those made of silicone, PVC, or other TPE/TPR). Keep it in its original packaging or a dedicated cloth pouch.

Important Safety Warnings for Your Loving Joy TPE Dildo Range

Whether you are using the Loving Joy Suction Cup Dildo (with or without balls) or the Loving Joy Double Dildo, please read and adhere to the following safety guidelines. Because all of these items are made from TPE (Thermoplastic Elastomer), they share identical material care requirements, but their distinct designs require specific safety considerations.

1. Material Characteristics and Hygiene (TPE):

• Porous Material: TPE is a porous material, meaning it has microscopic holes that can harbour bacteria. It cannot be completely sterilised.

• Condom Recommendation: Because of its porous nature, it is highly recommended to use condoms on these toys. This makes cleaning significantly easier, extends the lifespan of the soft material, and is the only way to safely share the toy or switch between orifices.

• Allergy Alert: Discontinue use immediately if you experience any redness, swelling, chafing, or discomfort.

2. Lubricant Compatibility (Crucial for TPE):

• Water-Based Only: Strictly use high-quality water-based lubricants. Apply generously for comfort and to protect the soft material.

• Avoid Silicone and Oil: Never use silicone-based or oil-based lubricants (like Vaseline, coconut oil, or baby oil). These will chemically break down the TPE, causing it to melt, warp, or become permanently sticky and unusable.

3. Specific Design Warnings:

• Suction Cup Dildos (With and Without Balls):

  • Surface Adhesion: The suction cup is designed for hands-free play on smooth, flat, non-porous surfaces (like glass, tiles, or a shower wall). Ensure the surface is clean and slightly damp for maximum grip. Do not trust the suction cup to hold the toy’s full weight at extreme heights or angles without supporting it.

  • Anal Safety (With Balls): The molded balls act as a natural, wide barrier, making this design much safer for anal play by preventing the toy from slipping entirely inside the body.

  • Anal Safety (Without Balls): If using a suction cup dildo without balls for anal play, you must exercise extreme caution. Ensure the suction cup base itself is significantly wider than your anatomy. Never force the base inside, and always maintain control to prevent the toy from becoming lost inside the rectum.

• Double Dildos:

  • Partner Communication: Double dildos are often used for mutual penetration. Constant communication is vital to ensure the angle, depth, and pace are comfortable for both partners.

  • Cross-Contamination (Critical): Never move one end of the dildo from the anus to a vagina without thoroughly washing it first or changing the condom. Doing so can cause severe bacterial infections (such as Thrush or Bacterial Vaginosis). If sharing with a partner, condoms must be used on both ends to prevent the transmission of STIs.

4. Cleaning, Drying, and Powdering:

• Routine Cleaning: Wash the toy thoroughly before its first use and immediately after every use. Use warm water and an unscented, mild antibacterial soap or a dedicated toy cleaner.

• Do Not Boil: Never attempt to sterilise TPE by boiling it, using extremely hot water, or putting it in the dishwasher. Heat will permanently melt the toy.

• Renewing the Texture: TPE naturally becomes tacky after washing. Once the toy is completely air-dried, lightly dust the entire surface with cornflour (cornstarch) or a specialised toy renewing powder to restore its smooth, lifelike feel.

5. Safe Storage:

• Keep Separated: Never store TPE toys touching each other or touching silicone, TPR, or PVC toys. The mixed materials will chemically react and melt together. Store your dildos in their original packaging, in separate breathable cotton pouches, or wrapped in lint-free cloths.

• Environment: Store in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight, radiators, or extreme temperatures.

6. Regular Inspection and Disposal:

• Check for Wear: Regularly inspect the product for deep tears, perishing of the material, or if it develops a persistent odour. This indicates bacteria has permeated the TPE, and it is no longer safe to use.

• Disposal: Dispose of the product responsibly in your general household waste (securely wrapped in an opaque bag or newspaper to maintain privacy). TPE is not accepted by standard UK council recycling schemes.

Disposal Instructions

1. Material Identification: These products are made from TPE (Thermoplastic Elastomer). TPE is a soft, porous material that mimics the feel of skin, but it is not typically accepted through standard council recycling schemes alongside your everyday plastics.

2. Cleaning: Before disposal, ensure the product is thoroughly cleaned. Wash the toy with warm water and a mild antibacterial soap or a specialised toy cleaner, and allow it to air dry completely. (Please note: Unlike silicone, TPE should never be boiled, as extreme heat will melt and permanently damage the material). Cleaning helps maintain hygiene and prevents contamination of waste streams.

3. Disposal:

• General Waste: Because local councils generally do not accept TPE for kerbside recycling, you will need to dispose of the product in your general household waste bin (usually your black bin). Ensure it is securely wrapped in an opaque bag or newspaper to maintain your privacy and prevent any exposure.

• Specialised Recycling: Check if there are any dedicated adult toy recycling programmes in the UK that accept TPE. Some sex-positive retailers and eco-conscious brands offer take-back or mail-in schemes specifically for recycling intimate items, which is the most eco-friendly option if available.

4. Packaging:

• Cardboard Box: If the products came in an outer cardboard box or sleeve, this can be recycled with your regular council paper and cardboard collection.

• Internal Packaging: Any internal plastic wrapping, blister packs, or inserts should be checked for recycling symbols. If they are accepted by your local council, dispose of them in your plastics recycling bin; otherwise, place them in your general waste.

5. Environmental Considerations: Always aim to minimise waste by considering the environmental impact. Due to the highly intimate and porous nature of TPE, donating or reselling these products is strictly not recommended for health and hygiene reasons. Therefore, utilising a specialised adult toy recycling programme (if available) or ensuring they go into your general household waste securely wrapped is the safest and most responsible route.

By following these instructions, you can help ensure that your Loving Joy TPE Dildos are disposed of responsibly, minimising their environmental impact.

Disclaimer: All products placed on the market by Loving Joy Limited prior to December 13, 2024, remain marketable as they are governed by the provisions of the previous legislation.